It’s been a while since I’ve been active on here and I’m trying my best to fit the time in but I’ve recently been struck with a new problem – Migraines.
Now I’ve never been a person who has suffered with headaches. Maybe the odd one as part of a hang over or sleep depravation but nothing like what I’m suffering with at the moment.
The beginning
It all started a couple of days after coming back from my trip to Barcelona last month. We came back late on the Monday and I was back at work first thing on the Tuesday. I should have planned it better.
Two days later on the Thursday I’d been working very intently on the computer all day at work. This isn’t anything unusual as my job is desk based but this particular day I was adamant I was going to complete some work so that I didn’t hold some members of my team up. Copying and pasting from one document to another. At around 4.15pm I noticed that I had this like weird holographic thing in my vision. I just thought it was because I’d been staring at the computer all day or that I looked at one of the light in the office too long and I was getting one of those light things you see when you’ve had a camera flash or bright light. I stood up from the computer, walked around and felt ok. It was just this thing in my vision that was disturbing me. Home time soon came round and I set off to drive home. It was sunny so I put my sun glasses on, prescription I may add. The weird light things were still there. I managed the hour long drive home and got in, let the dogs outs and sat down. This is when it got worse.
My fingertip on my right ring finger felt numb. I put it down to having too much pressure on it at some point but then I could feel the numbness moving across my hand on to the other fingers. I stared at my hand in confusion not sure what was happening. Clinching a fist, spreading my fingers out. I still couldn’t feel them. It was like when you lay on your hand and it goes numb. You can move them but you can’t fully feel it.
Then it got worse again… I could feel numbness creeping into my cheek. Now I started to panic. I was looking in the mirror for the droop of the face you are told to look out for with the signs of a stroke. I started smiling, gritting my teeth, poking my face in the mirror. Anything to check that I wasn’t having a stroke.
By this point I was panicking. Like my stomach was churning, I was shaking, my heart was racing… I didn’t know what to do.
Luckily Stephen was pulling up on the drive and he shortly walked in. “Something isn’t right!” I said to him.
He looked at me blankly, “What do you mean?” He said.
“I can’t feel the side of my face” I said.
“Get in the car now”
“Wait, it might just be me. Let’s give it a few seconds and if it’s still numb we’ll go.”
He picked up the house phone and rang the NHS direct number. He passed the phone over to me and proceeded to speak to a guy who was clearly reading from a script and before he even got to asking me questions about what was happening I had to give him all my details nearly down to what colour knickers I was wearing.
“Are you bleeding heavily?”
“No”
“Do you have pains in your chest?”
“No”
“Do you have a rash anywhere on your body?”
“I don’t think so but I’m fully clothed so I wouldn’t know”
“You say the side of your face went numb, did you loose control of your limbs?”
“No”
“I need all the information of your doctors surgery before we can do anything…..”
Inside I was screaming WELL I’M OBVIOUSLY NOT AN EMERGANCY!!
He then said “From the questions you’ve answered I don’t deem you to be in immediate danger. I am going to pass your details on to the doctor and get him to call you back.”
By this point the numbness had gone. I felt like a complete fraud. I even walked up to the polling station to cast my vote in the election. After being home for a couple of minutes the doctor was on the phone. He was lovely. He asked me to describe the whole situation. When I got to the end he said calmly “I’m 99% sure that what you’ve experienced is a migraine with auras…”
Phew!!!!!
“…But we would like to see you. We’re based at Barnsley Hospital A and E so get yourself up here and we’ll check you over.”
After managing to compose myself we got in the car and went to the hospital. I was seen by a lovely female doctor. She put me at ease and did all the tests. She again confirmed it was a migraine with auras. She put it down to work stresses, lack of sleep and the timing of my holiday.
“You might never get one again. You might have them for the rest of your life. I can’t tell you that. You just need to remember that if the symptoms are similar you know what it is. If things ever get worse or you do in fact loose control of your limbs or have any of the other symptoms of a stroke you need to get yourself to A and E.” she said.
She said I was very lucky to not have had the headache that usually comes with a migraine but that I could possibly have them in future if I suffer with them again.
And now
Well how naive was I? I continued on as normal. Things were fine. I had a week off work where I spent the week doing stuff around the house and being socialble. The first day back at work was fine. I got home that evening and was watching TV then I noticed I couldn’t see Stephen when he was sat at the side of me and that the picture on the TV was wrong. “Oh shit! It’s happening again!”
I proceeeded to go up to bed with ice packs and lay in the dark watching TV. The numbness came and started in my hand as last time and worked to my face. It was exactly how I expected. I went to sleep.
During the next day at work I had the auras. They start as a small round circle of holographic patterns and slowly get bigger until they cover my whole vision. The episode passed in about 30 mins. I thought I was ok. Spent the rest of the afternoon in meetings and then got in my car to drive home. I had a quick chat with my mum and then continued the journey. This is when the pain hit. Oh my god!! I’ve never felt anything like it. I cried all the way home screaming “Just get home! You can do this!” I managed it. Got straight in the house and went to bed. Buried my head in the pillow and went to sleep for 2 hours. I woke up with a headache but nothing as bad as earlier. I stayed awake for a fewer hours and then off to sleep I went.
The next day at work I was just shattered. I got home after work and went pretty much straight to bed to watch TV and had an early night.
On the Thursday things were ok at work. Got home and we were just in the car going out for tea and I saw them again. The auras! Damn them! We went to the pub for tea and I sat for most of his having my vision obstructed but I was determined I wasn’t going to wallow at home. If this was something I was going to have for the rest of my life, I was going to continue living. Afterwards I got home and went to bed.
Friday at work was ok until the auras started again. This was it. I got straight on to the doctors and they got me in that afternoon.
The result
So I went through the same check up with my doctor as I had the first time it occurred and he basically came to the same conclusion, it was migraines caused by stress and sleep depravation but now instead of having them as one-offs I was having them in clusters. He told me about different medication and how my life would now change. Now I have a tablet I have to take as a soon as I can see the auras and if I need to I can take another one 2 hours later.
I came out of the chemist thing “probably won’t get them anymore now.”
How wrong was I. Saturday lunch time the aura started. I took a tablet and dealt with it. The headache was agony buy it subsided after a couple of hours. And today the same but this time the aura started about 30 minutes after I’d got up. This put all ending to my theory that caffeine was my trigger. I had to take another tablet. The doctor did warn that the dosage might need to be doubled if I didn’t feel that they were doing enough. Today I found that one table worked and that taking a pain relief a couple of hours later helped.
So that’s it
Sadly at 30 I’ve now landed myself with something I didn’t see coming. Whether it’s started due to stresses in life or work, I don’t know. All I know is that I’m not letting it ruin my life. This week has been hard. This is exactly what I’ve looked like all week.
I know this won’t be the only post I do about my migraines but I hope my experiences might be able to help or give comfort to others knowing that there are others struggling with it.
Xoxox